I Would Like A Bowl Of Love- Hold The Suffering

Michael gave a very important message today. Living from your heart. I know I have mentioned this before, but as we are moving into the chakra of the heart, I feel it is worth mentioning again.

This is the time to start following your heart. Sing your heart song. AA Michael said tonight that suffering and fear exist on the same plane and love and suffering do not.

If you come from love, there is no suffering. HMMMM a world of love sounds much better than a world of suffering. It is a gentle reminder to come from L-O-V-E.

When you come from love, all is well. Things may not be a bed of roses but coming from love will only make you feel better and it is infectious. THIS is the kind of infection you both want to give and receive.

Hey, if you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with..........

Dreams Are A Wish Your Heart Makes.........

Off tomorrow to swim with the dolphins. I am so excited I am dreaming about them. Kitty was so happy to see me tonight when I returned from Alabama. Only to be sad when I unpacked and repacked for the Bahamas. Poor Zoe.

The dolphin energy is high. I know they will give me many gifts that I will share with you. The message I keep getting is to Live Your Dreams.

What ever that means for you, take it and run with it. It is your life and your dreams, why not live it (them) the way you want to.

Your dreams may change with time and as you grow. Don't look for what your dreams are. Ask your heart. It knows. It always knows the truth.

Allow yourself, to dream, to day-dream and to wish. You can even wish upon a star. It is about you living the life you love and there is no better time than the present.

Use the next few days to create your dreams so 2010 is about living them.

Love and dolphin kisses...........

The WInner Takes It All

As we approach another decade ending, look back and revel in your accomplishments. Don't look at the things you did not accomplish, but instead, where you grew as a human being, accomplished things you didn't think you could, overcame something.

Look at all your successes. Acknowledging your accomplishments is very powerful and very healing. When you look at what you didn't be, do or have, you diminish who you are and lower your vibration.

Everyday you have success, there may be things that you are unaware of that was an accomplishment, but if you can find one thing a day, that you accomplished, (Rather than did not succeed or failed at) your life will alter. You can even make a list. Today I accomplished.....

It could be getting out of bed, Doing the laundry, scoring a good grade on a test or assignment, doing something you have never done before, etc.

Challenge: See what it takes to get your list to 100 (or more) accomplishments.

Remember..........You are always a winner in the eyes of the angels, even when you don't succeed.

Live Life, Laugh Loud!

Christmas has come and gone.

Another Christmas has come and gone. Today was a great day to just rest, relax and chill. We watched 'A Christmas Story' at least 4 times, 'Christmas Vacation' at least 3 times and of course, 'Home Alone' at least 3 times. Enough to hold me for a year.

I am very excited about the upcoming trip to Bimini. Dolphins, Here I come. I was gifted today, a wetsuit, snorkel, fins and mask so I am ready.

My dad says that when he was a kid, it was "another 365 days till I get this again". He enjoys giving as most people do. Receiving is always nice, but there has to be a balance in giving and receiving. When you give yourself, it is the best gift you can give.

Why not make it Christmas everyday? In other words give something of yourself, time, love, a compliment, a service once a day everyday for a year. See how it alters your life.

Ready to take on the Challenge? Only 364 days left! Come on!!!!!!!!!!!!

Twas the Night Before Christmas- Fairy Style

This message really did come to me in poem form. Please take the message (especially the bottom) to heart, as It is for you too. This is true guidance I want to share with you.

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'Twas the night before Christmas, full of cookies and dairy
and all were asleep, except for the fairy

the stockings were hung by the chimney with care
while visions of dolphins jumped in the air

The fairy was busy playing with stones,
while listening to the stormy, howling winds moan

The thoughts of warm places did bring me joy
as I settled down to play with new toys

Dreaming of oceans and dolphins did make me smile,
and I thought to myself, it wont be a while

The dolphins were jumping with excitement in the Bahamian air
knowing that the fairy would soon be there

the mermaids were singing and dancing all day
in hopes that the fairy would soon come and play

So playing with crystals I did instead
while my family was sound asleep in their beds.

The energy was strong just how I thought
while I called on the angels as guidance was sought,

When, what to my wondering eyes should appear,
But angels and mermaids and fairies so clear

Now, Michael, and Raphael and Isis and Maat
were all there to guide me just like that.

Kwan Yin and Horus and Jopiel came
to bring in lightness and create a new game

More guidance showed up in my bedroom tonight
in hopes that this fairy would shine a new light

There is so much to be done and so much to provide,
live long and play hard and enjoy this fine ride

the new year is coming and the magic it brings,
listen to your heart and let your heart sing

You have the power, let it all out,
jump up and down, laugh and shout

The new dawn is coming and you should not fear,
the message to you is have faith my dear

You will be guided every step of the way,
to bring light to the world and to lead the way

Do not worry or fret little fairy, you are safe
and protected in the arms of Mother Mary

Raphael spoke and began unconcealing
a new plan of action to generate my healing

You must have fun and you must rest
and you will be healed and live a life full of zest

This fairy was stunned at the message that came
and knew that my life would not be the same.

I sat there and pondered my very next chapter
as the angels all smiled and squealed with much laughter

They said my dear, there’s nothing to do,
we will be downloading and bringing it all to you

The dolphins will help you understand this yearning
while in the Bahamas you will be learning

You will help guide and teach many more
while helping and watching their beautiful wings soar

Have patience my dear, you will hear the call
to turn on your torchlight to bring light to all

You are not alone, and never have been,
we are guiding you this, through thick and through thin

The fairy sighed and knew they were right and
the fairy felt blessed with the magic tonight.

She had a brief moment and asked them to guide her
to only find out they were always beside her.

The fairy knew something big was in sight,
as she put away stones and turned out the light.

The message to me is also for you, take it
and run with it and know that it’s true.

We are lightworkers brought here to bring the world light
and follow our mission and never lose sight.

We are drawn to this earth to heal and to love
and to shine light and awaken with help from above,

you answered the call and all that holds dear
to brighten the planet with love, joy and cheer


Go shine your light and all that you do
and know in your heart, the angels love you.

I hope this brings a smile, and a reminder that we are here and needed. Happy holidays to all.

Choosing Your Words

Choose your words carefully. Each word you says creates a vibration and resonance.

For example:

Passion, Love, Happiness, Joy and Fun evoke certain vibrations and feelings.

Anger, Depression, Fear, Hopelessness evoke other vibrations and feelings.

Think about it, when you say the word passion, it evokes an experience of passion in that moment. Same with happiness.

The more you say you are tired, or depressed, then that is what you are evoking.

Use words that give you an experience as you speak. You will ultimately gain a new and higher vibration the more you use higher vibration words.


Challenge: Take a high vibration word each day and see how many times you can say it!!!!!

Have Fun!

A Complaint Free World

Three days until Christmas. Can you believe it? I am home relaxing (trying to anyways) in the South and counting the days until I am with the dolphins. (1 week from today).

I love being with my family, but I am much more excited about being with my dolphin family. I know massive healing will take place, both for me and for them.

New worlds are opening.

There is alot that is happening in the next 10 days or so until the new year. Take time to reflect, to heal and to create.

This is an opportunity to spread joy where ever you go. I have been mentioning it all week but, spreading joy is simple and makes a difference.

From now until Christmas, don't say anything negative. Not about anyone, any situation or anything. (3 days without complaining or gossip.............totally can be done). Challenge:If someone says negative things or complains to you, see if you can turn it positive. Don't participate or listen to the negative things.

See how you feel at the end of 3 days...........

I promise you will have a better holiday season because of it. If at the end of the 3 days, you will have the choice to go back and complain or continue to life a complaint free life.

• On your mark, get set, go.............

It is as easy as breathing........

During the Holiday Season, it is easy to get frustrated, upset, angry and depressed. Especially traveling. It is important to keep your spirits high.

1. Breathe. Take slow deep breaths that will help calm you
2. Use Lavender to help relax you
3. Laugh as much as possible
4. Always ask the lesson or opportunity of this situation
5. Focus on what you are grateful for
6. Focus on being of service

Getting the attention off of you is what you are aiming for. The less attention on you, the happier you will be!

Make this day a gift for someone other than you!

All I Wanted Was a Bath

I was so looking forward to taking a hot bath last night after being in the cold snow. I came home just as it was starting to come down a little more. I ate dinner. I cleaned out the refrigerator since I am leaving to go out of town. Dumped out some extra spaghetti sauce. Came back to watch TV and then decided it was time for my long hot sea salt bath.

I went into the bathroom and shockingly looked at my bathtub and said, "What the hell is that". I stared for a moment when I realized it was the spaghetti sauce that had come through the drain. The bathtub was about to over flow with water, herbs and spaghetti sauce.

I didn't know if it was rust, sewage or what. I finally figured out it was the water from doing the dishes mixed with the spaghetti sauce. I tried crystal Drano. I tried plunging. NOTHING. No bath for me. I kept Zoe out so she would not eat it.

I called my super this morning and when he came in and saw the mess in the bath tub, he said the same thing I said. Every time we turned on the kitchen sink, the bathtub would fill more and the water would get deeper. After about an hour of going back and forth from the kitchen to the bathroom, finally it was fixed. Apparently there was a block and the water and everything came back to the bathtub. I couldn't take a shower till it was gone because I would have been knee deep in oregano and smelled like pizza.

So finally the tub was drained, the mess was clean and I was ready for a shower. It felt so good.

All you can do was laugh. It would have been great if you were doing a spaghetti cook off, but all I wanted was a bath.

Kindness is the Key to Your Heart

Don't let the weather get you down. I don't know if anyone is reading this anywhere else in the world, but in NYC it is cold and snowy. It is a good snuggle with Zoe and watch good movies day.

Today is a good day to spread a random act of kindness. People are down because of the weather, the holidays and whatever else.

Do something that would make someone, even you, smile.

I am making Brownies for Zoe's babysitter, and cookies for my dad. I love baking. I don't do if often because if I bake, I eat it unless I am baking it for someone else.

Do something today to get your mind off you and focus on how you can brighten some one's day.

Good Deed Day!

What good deed will you do?

Looking For The Indiana Jones in You!

Never stop exploring. That is the thought for the day. Exploring what? New Ideas perhaps. Your hearts desires. Your life. Your passions. Your humanity.

Exploring is an adventure and when you are truly exploring what is next, there will be magical things that show up. When you explore, you dwell in the unknown. Think Indiana Jones! Always going into the unknown, facing what he gets and always a happy ending, even though there are bumps along the way.

It is only when you KNOW how things are going to turn out that is the downer. When you know something you are actually creating it to be that way. When you are exploring something, there are unlimited possibilities that can arise.

Have fun with this, explore your neighborhood, your friends, your families and your beliefs. Learn things you didn't know.

Go ye forth mate and explore.

Action Action, We Want Action!

Nothing happens without action. You can intend all you want. You can pray all you want. You can visualize all you want. But nothing happens without action.

The journey to your purpose begins with a step. The more action you take, the more results you will produce.

If you are taking action and not producing results (whatever they may be) you are either not taking actions and lying about it or you are taking the WRONG actions and lying about it. Example, you are looking for a new job and you send one resume a week and you wonder why no one is calling you. You are taking action but the wrong ones.

When I say Lying, it is mostly to yourself. We live in a delusional world. Tell the truth and it will set you free.

In the meantime, take an action, any action toward your desires and you will be one day closer to fulfilling it.

Habit Yourself

Create a new habit today. Most of our days are spent doing old habits or patterns. Most that are unconscious. What if you consciously created new habits. Habits that inspired you, made a difference for you, made you smile. Then, if you created that,what difference would it make for each person you come into contact with.

Old Habits die hard, new habits are what is possible.

Examples of new habits:
Acknowledging people's smile
Saying Hello to strangers with a smile
Leaving quarters in gumball machines for children or meters for cars
Complimenting people around you
Writing inspirational thoughts and leaving them for people to find
Saying 10 unexpected and positive things for people that alter their day
Paying it forward

There are as many new habits as you can think of. Get creative. Leave comments with some other new habits that you think of.

It is habitforming!

Take Time To Rest

Take time to rest. It is easy to get caught up in the holiday chaos but make sure you allow time to rest. We often forget that when we are go, go going but it is so important. Especially this time of year.

We have to go there, have to run there, dodging this person and that person, be at this party, buy this gift, cook this meal, clean this room, catch this plane. Yada Yada Yada. SLOW DOWN.

Do what you can and what you can't don't do.

I came home today from lunch with a friend and laid down on the couch and boom, out for 2 hours. I know I needed to rest.

This isn't a message for me however, it is a message for those reading it. (By the way, is anyone reading this??)

You must rest and allow yourself to recoup. Space yourself out right now. I know the end of the year is coming and deadlines are to be met, but one thing I know is the angels will make you rest if you don't.

So pace your self right now and allow yourself to rest, rejuvenate and relax.

Refreshing huh?

Letting Go Of Your Past

Your past is your past is your past. Why are you letting things from your past hold you back? It is not furthering your life. It happened. It is over. Move on.

When you hold onto your past, you can't move forward. It is time to let it go.

Yesterday's successes do not constitute who you are nor does yesterday's failure. You have the opportunity to invent yourself moment by moment by moment.

The only reason you live a default life is because you say so. Unless you are creating a life that you love, you are living by default. You past patterns is a default way of life.

Live life for today. I know I say this over and over but it makes a difference.

Holding on to fears, anger, things that were done or said only limits what is possible.

If you knew today were your last day on earth, would you continue to hold on to those things that hold you back? No. you would love the people you love, you would forgive, you would enjoy your life and you would make every moment count.

What are you waiting for?

Your past is your past is your past and has absolutely nothing to do with who you are today.

Got any ideas?

Focus on the Good

When life gets ya down, think of the positive. There are so many good things around us that if you focus on that for a nano second, then you can actually see that there are more good things in life than not so good things.

When you focus on the good and not the not so good, life somehow turns out. There are so many beautiful things that life has to offer, choose one and see what happens. Take one a day, (not the vitamin), from the following examples to get you started. Of course you can make up your own.

1) The love you give and receive
2) The people and animals who love you
3) Sunny days
4) The ocean and dolphins
5) Gratitude
6) the difference you made today or who you made smile
7) Nature and all it's offerings
8)Music
9) Your favorite thing to do
10) The things you have accomplished.

Focus on the good things in your life for several consecutive days and see what happens. It will all turn out, it always does.

Affirmations, The Key To Your Success!

One of the best ways to raise your vibration and manifest your desires is affirmations. I don't mean magical thinking but really affirming something into existence. Keep saying it until you believe it. The more your affirm something, the more you confirm something.

Affirmations are a subtle yet powerful way to access your higher self and a higher vibration.

By saying I can do this or I am that, you begin to believe it. The more you say it, the more you believe it. The more you believe it, the more your vibration will align with the universe to bring it to you.

I recommend saying your affirmations, when you first wake up while you are in the still sleepy state. Then you can repeat them through out the day through verbal or written communications. The more you see it, and the more you hear it, you will begin to see it happening.

Always affirm the positive. When you say: don't, can't, won't, try, etc, the universe doesn't hear it. So if you say "I don't want to be broke anymore", the universe hears, "I want to be broke". The more you say it, the more you will affirm it and viola, there you have it. Instead say, "Abundance is coming to me now"

By tweaking and affirming your speaking, you will soon see and feel the difference. When it starts to feel good, you will notice that it will start to come to you. When there is no doubt or fear, the affirmations are very powerful

Take some time to create affirmations that really speak to you and affirm them daily. Keep repeating them until they become natural.

Songs for the Soul

Sing. Sing a song. Make it simple. To last a whole night long. Don't worry if it's not good enough, for anyone else to hear. Just Sing, Sing a song.


(everyone join in) La La La Lala. La La La La Lala. La La La Lalala La.

Singing takes away your blues. You CAN'T be upset, angry when you sing. Singing opens your throat (and heart) chakra and raised your vibration.

If you are angry or upset, take a moment to sing a song. It works like a charm

When I am upset I put on something like Abba or something I really like. Even when I am happy I put on something that will raise my vibration. (Abba is always good)

If you are always conscious of raising your vibration, then you will find ways to do that. Singing and music is only one of them. It is so healing.

I love to sing. I sing as much as I can (although I am not the singer I was when I was performing and in constant singing and music lessons). Sometimes Zoe even tolerates it.

There are so many messages in singing and in music. If you listen you can hear them.

For example- Think of your fellow man, lend him a helping hand, put a little love in your heart.

or

All you need is love. (La La La La La) All you need is love. (La La La la La) All you need is love, love, Love is all you need.


or one of my favorites, (not much of a message but sure is fun to sing)

You are the dancin' queen, young and sweet only 17, dancing queen, feel the beat from the tambourine, you can dance, you can jive, having the time of your life, see that girl, watch that scene, diggin' the dancin' queen.


This one has a particularly powerful message. It stands alone.

Imagine there is no heaven, it easy if you try. No hell below us. Above us only sky. Imagine all the people, living for today. Imagine there is no country. It isn't hard to do. Nothing to kill or die for, and no religions too. Imagine all the people living life in peace. You may say I am a dreamer, but I am not the only one. I hope someday you'll join us and the world will live as one.

Doubting is Detrimental

Never doubt yourself. You have all it takes, always, all the time. The only thing that stops you from having it is your thoughts and your words.

Your words are so powerful. Doubts only limit you. The doubts aren't real, even though they appear it. They are just thoughts you have. Focusing on your doubts is about as relevant as saying "I had eggs for breakfast".

Your doubts only stop you if YOU allow it. You are not born with doubts, you create them. They are not genetic, they are not in DNA. You create them. Someone says something or you compare yourself to someone else or you tell yourself you can't and voila, doubt is now created.

What if there were no doubt? What would you do then?

Today take on living doubt free. Every time you notice a doubt, stop, change, start and think of something else. Keep doing this until you have no doubt. Take it one day at a time. If everyday you take on being doubt free, you will find that it is easier and easier to move beyond your doubts.

Live life to the fullest. All you have is now. You don't have time for doubts.

Little Things Mean Alot

I love Kittens. They just exude happiness, and joy. No matter what they do, they can brighten a day. They can make an ordinary day seem extraordinary and can bring laughter just by their innocence and curiosity. Even though my cat is an 11 year old kitten, (no one ever told her she wasn't) she still has the playfulness of a little one. Young kittens are so inspiring and so fresh.

If you haven't seen this, this makes me laugh so hard and just makes me happy. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2Ph_Cp9a50

Keep this for those days when you need a smile. I saved it to my favorites and it just makes me laugh.

Look for ways to spread joy and give it to others. Be original. Spread joy in unexpected ways........ In the meantime, enjoy the kitten.......

Waiting For The Right Path

Tonight, I was invited to speak at a graduation in New Jersey and I was honored to be there. I spoke about having a positive attitude, focus and never giving up as key points to success. As I left, I was waiting for the PATH train in New Jersey. I am not familiar with the PATH train and it has been 6 years or so since I have ridden it.

So I am at the Exchange Place stop waiting for the PATH train to come so I can get to 33rd street in Manhattan. Five trains go by and I am waiting for the right PATH to show up. I didn't realize that I needed to take a train to Pavonia Newport and that the train would be the train to Hobokon. I kept looking for the sign that said Pavonia Newport and the train with Pavonia Newport never came. So I am sitting thinking about the speech I had just given, and looking at my own life and thinking, am I on the right path and asking for a sign. Funny, I was thinking am I on the right path, while waiting for the PATH.

I was getting exasperated, both at waiting for the train and wanting clarity if I was on the right path in my life. So a train pulls up, and I am waiting AGAIN, and the conductor says "Next Stop, Pavonia Newport". I jump up and run and get on the train.

I chuckled as I was waiting for the right PATH and it was in front of me the whole time. Then it dawned on me, I was asking If I was on the right path in my life and for a sign. Five trains later, It hit me. The right path was there all along, I just need to step aboard. The "sign" (Pavonia Newport) I was looking for, was not obvious but the train led me to my destination.

If that isn't enough of a sign, when I sat down, there was a white feather on the floor. The white feather is a sign from the angels that all is well and your prayers are being answered. As if by magic, the feather began circling as if it were in a tornado. There was no air blowing and no one else seemed to notice. I'll take it.

So when asking for a sign, look in front of your eyes. It is always there.

The right Path will always come, and it is always there. Trust and step aboard.

Testing 1 2 3.......Testing...... 1 2 3

What if everything was the way you wanted? What if life was fair and played out exactly the way you wanted? No Drama. No worry. No upset. Sounds good right.........

In reality, if that were to happen, you would be BORED! B-O-R-E-D Bored. Life gives us certain challenges to overcome, to grow from and gain from. It is like a test so to speak. You are always tested and when you pass the test, you move to the next level and you keep moving till you get mastery. Some tests are easy and some are hard. Some are fast and some take longer. To me growing up, Spelling was always fast and easy and Math was always hard and took longer. But whatever test you were taking,by passing it, it enabled you to move to the next level. 5th grade goes to 6th grade, 10th to 11th and so on and so forth.

Every time you move to the next level, you grow as a person. You grow spiritually, mentally and emotionally. You overcome things, you develop yourself in areas, you thrive and then you are tested again. It is a never ending cycle. But the good news is, you don't have to let it stop you. Ever. You are in a life long training and development program called life. Take it or leave it, you are in the game of life. The better you make it, the better it is.

When you are growing, you begin seeking things that make life fun. The you get the real game. The game of creation. Test or no test, you will grow and have fun, thrive and succeed.

Life is amazing.........Cause you say so!

I Do Believe in Santa...... I Do I Do

The holidays are among us and it is time to write something cheery. I will be writing more and spreading the cheer as we approach the holiday season. If you do not celebrate Christmas, please do not be offended. My intention is to bring light and laughter to all people.

The top ten reasons to believe in Santa Clause
10) you get to sing cool songs about him
9) you don't really want to get coal for Christmas do you? Believing is a good thing.
8) you have an excuse to make and eat cookies....... Sounds good to me!
7) what would the 8 tiny reindeer do if there were no Santa? They would have no direction what so ever
6) is there any proof he doesn't exist? I mean if fairies exist, Santa must...
5) he is at Macy's after all and Macy's is a reputable store.
4) he sees you when you are sleeping and knows when you're awake, kinda scary. Don't want to be on his bad side.
3) If you are on his naughty list, no pressies for you!!!!!!
2) It makes the holiday season more cheery with all the Ho Ho Ho's and belly's that shake like a bowl full of jelly
1) it brings joy, laughter, hope, inspiration, fun, playfulness .... Which the world is hungry for.

If you believe in joy, laughter, hope, inspiration, fun and playfulness, how would your life alter?

Take it on today. You be the Santa Clause for someone in your life and spread the joy, laughter, hope, inspiration, fun and playfulness. It doesn't mean climb a chimney, fly around the world in 23 hours or carry alot of things on your back. It is an opportunity for you to spread cheer no matter what you celebrate.

Tis the time of year to spread the cheer............

Abundance wrapped for all!

Score!

Kitties are Magical Beings

Kitties are so special and magical. Especially my "alien" cat, Zoe. She is sooooooo loving and cuddly. When I got back from Alabama for Thanksgiving, she welcomed me (or yelled at me for leaving her for a few days) and has slept next to me since. I am just sitting here and it is cold and snowing outside and Zoe is full of cuddles. She is snuggling, loving, and kissing me on this cold day. There is nothing better. She is just sitting in my lap and purring like there is no tomorrow.

Why are kitties so magical? They are the most magical beings next to dolphins. Ancient Egypt had cats as royalty and as Gods. They were high powered status. Even today they are considered protectors Look at a tiger and how majestic they are. Look at Lions, how powerful and regal they are. There is something about their stature that is appealing.

There is something about cats. Andrew Lloyd Webber wrote a musical about them, T.S. Elliot wrote a poetry book about them.

Next time you see or pet a cat, notice the powers, notice the love, notice the intention.

Even though you may look like a kitten, Roar like a lion. Let your strength show, at the same time, love like a happy kitten.

MEOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW.

Do What You Do Best

Be yourself, it is what you do best. Don't try to copy someone else's life, make your own. They are who they are because they are who they are. You are who you are, because you are who you are. When you try to copy someone else, it is robbing you of creativity and power. When you are not being yourself, no one knows the real you. And you are so uniquely amazing.

Many try to copy other's success but it only leads to breakdowns. You are only who you are. You can't try to be someone else's success, they created it. You will thrive more if you are following your own success, your own vision, and your own heart. In other words, you are just plain old being you.

That's all she wrote.............

You Are The Creator of Your Life

When you want something bad enough, only you can make it happen. You are that powerful. Yes, you are the creator.

Creation is what ever you want it to be. There are no limits except what you put on you. There are no fears except what you create. Life is a creation, every moment of the day.

Life is what you make of it, not what it makes of you!

Go forth and live loud and proud.

Oh The Simplicity of Life

Life is simple. Really it is. When you put it all in perspective, it is just plain simple.

It is what it is. It isn't what it isn't. You did what you did. You didn't do what you didn't do. The rest is a story and That is that.

We spend so much time blaming ourselves for our situations, relationships, failures, health crisis etc. It is not your fault. You are not to blame. Things happen. It is what it is. I have had cancer 3 times. It is what it is. It is not my fault nor anyone else's. It is just what it is. (By the way, my scan came back clean............... Yahoozy!).

The more you beat your self up, the worse the situation gets. It is just what it is and that is that.

Take on, I mean really take on, forgiving your self and allowing your humanity to show.

You are your own worse critic. Now, if you weren't such a critic, what else would be available in your life.

Kinda like Walter Cronkite saying "And That's The Way It Is". Life is life. Pizza is Pizza. No significance in either except what you put there.

It is what it is. It isn't what it isn't. That is That.

Ponder that for a while...............

ABC's -------- The Way To Go

I was thinking all day what I wanted to write tonight that I have not said before. I am kinda tired today so I am not much for words. HMMM. When have you known me to be for a loss of words. I wanted something to say that would be powerful and impactful and I ran across this in my email from a while ago and it was perfect...... Enjoy.

To Achieve Your Dreams Remember Your ABCs
Avoid negative sources, people, places, things and habits
Believe in yourself
Consider things from every angle
Don't give up and don't give in
Enjoy life today, yesterday is gone and tomorrow may never come.
Family and Friends are hidden treasures, seek them and enjoy their riches
Give more than you planned to
Hang on to your dreams
Ignore those who try to discourage you
Just do it
Keep trying no matter how hard it seems, it will get easier
Love yourself first and foremost
Make it happen
Never lie, cheat or steal, always strike a fair deal.
Open your eyes and see things as they really are
Practice makes perfect
Quitters never win and winners never quit
Read study and learn about everything important in life
Stop procrastinating
Take control of your own destiny
Understand yourself in order to understand others
Visualize it
Want it more than anything
Xccelerate your efforts
You are unique of all God's creations nothing can replace you
Zero in on your target and go for it!

Learn and practice your ABC's. You will be glad you did.